About

I am Brenda. Thirty-one year old gal, who still at this age is dumbfounded at the complexities of life. I always felt that life could be stressful and pulsed through in dark periods. I did not realize how much of it was this rotten. I  walked around with these rose colored glasses with a gullible hope that everything was at it seems. I had my best intentions set forth, so assumed everyone and everything would be the same.  I’ve learned a lot of lessons the hard way, in which we have no choice to now be skeptical. To love– With conditions. I still love openly, but I tread cautiously with who is in my immediate circle.

I still write stories having to do with the non-glamorous  subjects we face, in hopes of trying to understand where we are, and how we got here. I believe art, above all, has the power to heal, and can be used as a medium for normalcy in people who feel misunderstood.

I am happy, I have the ability to write about this.

I lived in Los Angeles for about 7 years and absolutely loved living there. I was in the center of everything, and everyone it seemed, which always keeps my days interesting. I now reside between New York and California, more so the latter.

With a unique opportunity to be worldwide. So much responsibility and adulthood in the palm of my hand. I go from country to country with a gaping hole in my chest it feels like, nonetheless I survive and march forward. I pay attention, I preserve the feelings most try to run from. I sit with it and ask it to stay, and ask- Why? I live to understand what cannot be understood, and I feel comfort in at least knowing myself.

I graduated from CSU Northridge with a BA in Communication Studies. I really loved the subject because I can apply it to myself to figure out why I am the way I am. I’ve learned to recognize my boundaries and push them bit by bit.

Communications also has to do with messages, and how to send the right ones. I am here to write about messages important to me and maybe to you too? I write all of this from my heart and only hope you accept it , or challenge it. Send me an email, we’ll discuss it, and in a way we can be friends. Let’s get reading.

– Brenda.